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If my life gets any more bizzaro.... - One of the "substitute people"
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araestel
araestel
If my life gets any more bizzaro....
Call me... STUNNED.

I just got an e-mail from my ex-husband ('ex' is such a lovely little prefix), telling me he got re-married and has an 8 month old child!

*thud*

Just...

*thud*

I swore no woman in her right mind would ever marry that man, but I guess my divorcing him actually woke him up and made him behave.

It's just so fucking surreal. I think I need a drink.

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Current Mood: shocked shocked
Current Music: "Dog the Bounty Hunter"

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From: chaosmanor Date: November 29th, 2006 04:59 am (UTC) (Link)
I recently sat at the bridal table at our son's wedding with my first husband. Both of us have remarried (me more than once), so we had our new partners with us. Horrible experience, surrounded by exs, and the only topic of conversation we found we could all speak about was alien abductions. *surreal*
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:38 pm (UTC) (Link)
LOL I'll go with that theory!
lucilla27 From: lucilla27 Date: November 29th, 2006 07:17 am (UTC) (Link)
*hugs* Are you okay with it?
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:42 pm (UTC) (Link)
Oh hell yeah--if some other idiot wants him--more power to her. It's just... shocking to me.
lucilla27 From: lucilla27 Date: November 29th, 2006 10:54 pm (UTC) (Link)
~laugh~ Good for you. It's like trash day, you are always so happy to be rid of it. ;)
araestel From: araestel Date: November 30th, 2006 03:49 am (UTC) (Link)
Hell yeah!!
From: kailorien Date: November 29th, 2006 07:58 am (UTC) (Link)
Dito the above comment. Are you ok about it?
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:44 pm (UTC) (Link)
Yeah--as long as he's stopped bothering me--I'm cool with it. It's jsut so... unexpected. I mean, the last woman he dated went back to her ex after him. So yeah--I'm stunned.
padabee From: padabee Date: November 29th, 2006 10:07 am (UTC) (Link)
*cuddles close and brings Tequila*
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:45 pm (UTC) (Link)
*drinks all around* Celebrate!

*hugs*

At least he's leaving me alone now.
moondancerjen From: moondancerjen Date: November 29th, 2006 11:59 am (UTC) (Link)
NO WAI!!!!!!!!!!

If I were with you right now, I'd be pouring some tequila shots!

Its just no fair to train a man and then someone else gets to reap the rewards!
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:52 pm (UTC) (Link)
LOL

Yeah, but *I* sure don't want him back! *runs screaming into the night*
claudia603 From: claudia603 Date: November 29th, 2006 12:50 pm (UTC) (Link)
Wow, that is a shock. *hugs*

A leopard doesn't change his spots though. I'm not sure he will continue to behave, lol!
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:53 pm (UTC) (Link)
Her problem--not mine. LOL Call be done with the training. ;)
daizalicious From: daizalicious Date: November 29th, 2006 03:29 pm (UTC) (Link)
he's somebody else's headache now...
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:54 pm (UTC) (Link)
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!
sirenslily From: sirenslily Date: November 29th, 2006 04:33 pm (UTC) (Link)
Wow, that had to be quite a shocker!

I hope you had a big drink. Well, at least he isn't your problem now...
sirenslily From: sirenslily Date: November 29th, 2006 04:35 pm (UTC) (Link)
Forgot to add - drop me a line or something if you need to talk. *hugs*
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:59 pm (UTC) (Link)
*hugs* You're a sweetheart.
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 05:58 pm (UTC) (Link)
I just never expected it. But hey--if he's up for it--go him. He hurt me in so many ways I couldn't even *date* after our divorce. I'm so done....

Besides, other than him (and we see how well *that* turned out) I only like gay men. And um... that doesn't get me very far. LOL
sibelle_art From: sibelle_art Date: November 29th, 2006 06:18 pm (UTC) (Link)
Oh well, I really often wonder how certain people managed to get married by someone, but shit happens all the time ;) . *hugs*
araestel From: araestel Date: November 29th, 2006 07:20 pm (UTC) (Link)
I wonder the same thing. I guess maybe I just helped train him for the next one.
monicaop From: monicaop Date: November 29th, 2006 10:00 pm (UTC) (Link)
Well, the only good thing here is that apparently you are cool with it... but really... I'm sending you some red wine ;). Hugs!! Be well and take care.
araestel From: araestel Date: November 30th, 2006 03:48 am (UTC) (Link)
It's just so unfathomable to me that he's re-married, given the experiences I had with him. He was abusive both mentally and physically to the point I've never even dated after the divorce. And all I ever wanted was jsut to be loved.

To stamp my foot and say "it's not fair" comes to mind, but I refuse to be that childish. Though the thoughts are there.
monicaop From: monicaop Date: November 30th, 2006 04:43 am (UTC) (Link)
Mmmm, well girl... just imagine how totally desperate that poor woman must have been to... marry that!!! Just think... he's not longer with me, he's far away from me, and be truly happy!!!. That... and go out and find yourself a totally cool and amazingly "Orlando" looking boyfriend ;)... or get yourself a great book and have fun reading, that's what I do ;).
I could recommend "The devil wears Prada" I had tons of fun reading that book.. even if it kind of remind me of my previous boss... I shudder to think what she would have done with that kind of power ;). If you want some mystery/thriller one let me know and I'll upload something for you.. even some Mists of Avalon kind of book :D.
And I just wrote to much... sorry, hugs, be well and take care.
araestel From: araestel Date: December 1st, 2006 05:55 am (UTC) (Link)
Trust me, I am *very* thankful I don't have to deal with him anymore. I just find it so freakin' unfair that he's found someone and I'm alone.

And right now, I don't hve time to read a postage stamp, but thanks for the offers. *hugs*
dpitman From: dpitman Date: December 1st, 2006 01:44 am (UTC) (Link)
that has to be a shock! How long were you married to him??
araestel From: araestel Date: December 1st, 2006 06:03 am (UTC) (Link)
Technically, 7. But we were engaged over 3 years before that.
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