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Can I substitute for Kirsten?
For those of you who wondered
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grey853 From: grey853 Date: July 6th, 2007 09:59 pm (UTC) (Link)
Grieving is difficult even under the best of circumstances, when all the survivors are physically and financially fit. That's not even close to the case here, so it's only natural to feel overwhelmed and done in. They never really talk about how hard it is in all the books or in movies. Nobody and nothing prepares you for it. You just have to keep breathing and slog through it. It ain't easy.

I do hope things do work out and get easier though and you get a chance to be on your own and grieve without having to take care of someone else all the time.
araestel From: araestel Date: July 8th, 2007 03:42 am (UTC) (Link)
It would be such a relief to not have to worry about where the next meal or bottle of medicine or tank of gas comes from--but that's my shitty reality. It keeps me awake at nights and on edge during the day. There's just no relief. I'd give anything for the chance to get away from everything or just stop stressing for one day. But I don't see that happening any time soon.


Btw, I thought of you the other day. I saw a guy who looked a whole lot like Paul Gross, just a little thinner. I almost tossed him in the trunk of my car for you. But I figured his girlfriend might get testy.
grey853 From: grey853 Date: July 8th, 2007 10:27 am (UTC) (Link)
So sorry you're having such a tough time. It's bad enough to grieve without having to worry about money and your health.

As for the PG lookalike, damn girlfriends anyway. *g*
araestel From: araestel Date: July 8th, 2007 04:16 pm (UTC) (Link)

Yes girlfriends are highly over-rated. Now *boyfriends*.....
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