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araestel
araestel
Crying
Ever cry over something you know is for the best but still feel the pain personally? I am right now. One of my best friends in the whole world, sindahise is dealing with the loss of a very special friend. I wish so badly that I could give her a huge hug and let her cry on my shoulder but a half a country separates us and I don't know what to do to help. I know she's dealing with a terrible loss and I feel it too. I hate feeling so helpless.

I'm here if you need me, honey. Love you! **hugs**

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maubast From: maubast Date: June 27th, 2005 05:04 pm (UTC) (Link)
I'm really very sorry for sindahise's loss. :(
araestel From: araestel Date: June 27th, 2005 06:41 pm (UTC) (Link)
She's really torn up about it. So am I and wav.
maubast From: maubast Date: June 27th, 2005 06:44 pm (UTC) (Link)
I'm so sorry to hear that.
araestel From: araestel Date: June 27th, 2005 06:46 pm (UTC) (Link)
Thanks. *sigh*
maubast From: maubast Date: June 27th, 2005 06:48 pm (UTC) (Link)
Your welcome. If there's anything I can do, please let me know.
araestel From: araestel Date: June 27th, 2005 06:52 pm (UTC) (Link)
Thanks muchly.

Actually there is--log on to IM for me
nikitas_lair From: nikitas_lair Date: June 27th, 2005 08:40 pm (UTC) (Link)
Aww, that is so sad. But she knows in her heart that you care very nuch. Perhaps call her and tell her how you wish you could let her cry on you shoulder. You are a good friend, just that fact that you feel the loss and pain and would drop everything if you could to help her through this difficult time, shows so much.

Don't feel helpless and you will give her that huge hug.

If you need to talk or anything, I'm here. And thanks for you kind words and support.

Take Care
araestel From: araestel Date: June 27th, 2005 09:16 pm (UTC) (Link)
Thanks honey. I really appreciate it. I think I have an idea of something to do, now I just have to go out tomorrow and do it.

It's so hard to lose a pet that is so close to you. It's heartbreaking especially for people who don't get out as much as are more of the stay home kind of people. That kind of loss leaves such a huge void.

I just wish I could do something to take away her pain.
bijou69 From: bijou69 Date: June 27th, 2005 10:41 pm (UTC) (Link)
I know how you feel....I wish there would be something we could do apart from sending virtual hugs :(
araestel From: araestel Date: June 27th, 2005 11:37 pm (UTC) (Link)
I know. It's so frustrating. I'm going out tomorrow to send her a care package of some goodies--whatever I can find I think might cheer her up. I figure it's worth a shot.
araestel From: araestel Date: June 28th, 2005 11:32 am (UTC) (Link)
She's very protective of her real identity and address. If you want though, you can send to me and I'll send your stuff with mine. I just don't feel right with sharing that info without her consent. My roommate tells me to *not* do anything, just like Linda requested, so I'm torn.

E-Mail me off journal at Ara@kixxster.org and we'll talk. *hugs*
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