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Pissed - One of the "substitute people"
Can I substitute for Kirsten?
araestel
araestel
Pissed
I really hate when people feel the need to discuss me behind their backs--for whatever reason. I'd much prefer people bring issues to me personally instead of making me a topic for discussion or making me play guessing games.

I try to be a nice person in the hopes that people will treat me with the same care and courtesy. I do what I do out of caring.

Maybe I should stop caring.

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Current Mood: pissed off pissed off
Current Music: "Livin' On a Prayer" Bon Jovi

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From: bohochic Date: October 3rd, 2005 07:03 pm (UTC) (Link)
WTF?? people are so ignorant sometimes.. thats just stupid......
araestel From: araestel Date: October 3rd, 2005 07:07 pm (UTC) (Link)
I'm just so hurt and pissed right now I could spit.
jack4will From: jack4will Date: October 3rd, 2005 07:28 pm (UTC) (Link)
*hugs hard* I'm here if you need to talk.
araestel From: araestel Date: October 3rd, 2005 07:55 pm (UTC) (Link)
Thanks hon--I appreciate that.

*hugs*
maubast From: maubast Date: October 3rd, 2005 08:16 pm (UTC) (Link)
You already know my thoughts on it.

cousinshelley From: cousinshelley Date: October 3rd, 2005 08:27 pm (UTC) (Link)
Well, as one of the people you're referring to here. . . I'd like to apologize. I'm going to use your journal to try to defend myself, anything along those lines I can send to via email.

But I do want you to know that the discussions behind your back you mention above pretty much consisted of us wondering why you seemed to feel the community wasn't doing well, why you felt it was such a chore, why you worried it wasn't going to make it, when we thought it was doing pretty darn well. And I did mention to you on at least one occasion that participation was really good, considering the members list and compared to other bigger communities. This is the type of thing she and I discussed. I guess instead of discussing my concerns again with someone else, I should have found a way to broach the subject again with you.

I never meant to hurt you or make you angry, certainly never meant for you to step down, nor I did mean to apparently spark so much drama.

I sincerely apologize for all of that and hope that in the end, somehow, there will be no hard feelings.

cousinshelley From: cousinshelley Date: October 3rd, 2005 08:29 pm (UTC) (Link)
I'm going to use your journal to try to defend myself,

Um, rather, I meant I'm 'not' going to use your journal. . . a typo there, sorry.
moblo413 From: moblo413 Date: October 3rd, 2005 08:28 pm (UTC) (Link)
*huuuuugs*

I am, as usual, clueless, but I'm here if you need another ear...

I'm so sorry sweetie!

_sweetangel From: _sweetangel Date: October 3rd, 2005 10:42 pm (UTC) (Link)
Once again I do not really know what you are talking about, but I want to offer you my compassion, my understand, and my love.

*gigantic hugs*
araestel From: araestel Date: October 4th, 2005 09:34 am (UTC) (Link)
Thanks *hugs*
padabee From: padabee Date: October 4th, 2005 01:04 am (UTC) (Link)
*hugs tight*
araestel From: araestel Date: October 4th, 2005 09:41 am (UTC) (Link)
thanks! ;)
sibelle_art From: sibelle_art Date: October 4th, 2005 03:29 am (UTC) (Link)
I don´t know what´s going on but I send you many hugs, hope everything will be ok :) .
araestel From: araestel Date: October 4th, 2005 09:49 am (UTC) (Link)
Thanks. ;)
tinkerfairy From: tinkerfairy Date: October 4th, 2005 05:30 am (UTC) (Link)
*hugs*
I hope everything's okay again
araestel From: araestel Date: October 4th, 2005 09:50 am (UTC) (Link)
Yeah--things are fine. *hugs*
From: kailorien Date: October 4th, 2005 06:37 am (UTC) (Link)
I hope you're okay now darls... don't stop caring though :) Sometimes caring can change another persons outlook on life.
araestel From: araestel Date: October 4th, 2005 11:00 am (UTC) (Link)
THanks. *hugs*
mesnica From: mesnica Date: October 4th, 2005 08:19 am (UTC) (Link)
People are assholes!

If you need me to kill whoever did that, I'm already in a mood to go on a spree ;)

*hugs you tightly*
araestel From: araestel Date: October 4th, 2005 11:01 am (UTC) (Link)
LOL No worries. Life is fine. ;) I've moved on.
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